How Long Is Alimony Paid In NJ?
If your marriage lasted 20 years or more:
You’re looking at open duration alimony.
That means payments continue indefinitely, until there’s been a major life change (like retirement, disability, or remarriage).
For anyone divorced from September 10, 2014 onward, there is a PRESUMPTION that the payor of alimony can retire at age 67 and stop paying alimony.
But it's just that: a presumption. Meaning that it can be challenged by the person who is receiving alimony.
If your marriage lasted under 20 years:
Alimony cannot exceed the length of the marriage, but judges have wide discretion.
For example, a 13-year marriage could result in 12+ years of payments, depending on how skillfully the case is presented (yet normally on a 13 year marriage one would not, in my experience, see any where near a 12 year alimony payment).
Some of the factors that the judge must consider include:
Each spouse’s income
The receiving spouse's ability to become self-supporting
The marital lifestyle
The cost of two households
There are 19 statutory factors in total—and your outcome depends on how well your lawyer uses them
It’s a strategic negotiation, or worse—a judgment call from someone in a black robe.
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