SO HERE'S WHAT HAPPENED...

"MY WIFE IS A NARCISSIST......and I just found out that she is sleeping with my best friend. I want a divorce!"

 

 

That's the first thing that Rob told me.

 

Rob's a good guy who has gone through hell.

 

Understandably, he was a bit of a mess when we first met.

 

But he's turned it all around and made a great life for himself and his kids.

 

I'll show you how he did it, and I'll give you ideas for how you can do it, too.

 

 

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"SOMETHING'S NOT RIGHT."

Rob and Sue live in New Jersey with their three kids.

The accounting firm he works for has an office nearby where he COULD work.

But he makes far more money in the city, and living in New Jersey is expensive.


It's a long day, but it allows him to provide his family with a solid 6-figure income.


Sue stopped working when they had their first child 15 years ago, and she's been a homemaker ever since.


Rob said that Sue can be self-absorbed, a "know-it-all", controlling, and demanding.

“She's pretty narcissistic" he told me.

Sheepishly, he told me that a week before he first spoke with me he put a tracking device on Sue's car "....just to make sure that she wasn't cheating.

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THE BETRAYAL

That day at 12:42 PM, Rob's life changed forever.

 

The tracking device notified his iPhone that Sue's car was in his best friend Alan's garage.



"What the hell is she doing there?" he thought.

 

Then, rage.

 

He quickly got himself a shot of Jack Daniels from his desk drawer.



"Hi Honey!" he said into his phone, his heart pounding out of his chest, feeling the drenching sweat rolling down his hand.

 

"What are you doing?"



"Why do YOU care?" she said. You're a workaholic!

 

All YOU do is work, while every day I have to get the kids off to school and clean the house.

 

I can't wait to get out of here, but you never help, and I've just been too busy today!”



Then a long, uncomfortable silence.

 

They both knew.



He called Alan. The phone rang 8 times.

 

Then voicemail.

 

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ROB'S CONCERNS

"I won't pay a dime of alimony!" he sobbed after a minute or so.

"And that cheating bitch isn't getting any of my 401(k), my IRA, my pension, or any of my stocks.

She deserves nothing from me. Let that jackass support her."

In addition, Rob said that he wants to ask the Judge for sole custody. He said that Sue is an unfit mother, and that the kids would rather live with him anyway.

He also said that he wants a full psychological report done on her "...to prove that she is a narcissist."

 

 

 

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ROB NEEDS HELP

At times, through his rage, Rob realized that he was speaking and acting irrationally, but he was having trouble being calm.

The next morning on the ferry to Manhattan, a commuter friend recommended my DIVORCE SMARTER course to him.

Rob subscribed from his iPhone and his first email arrived right away.

He read it on the ferry on his way to work.

He told me that the first email was so useful to him that each day thereafter he looked forward to receiving his email from me.

Rob told me that these daily emails answered a lot of his questions and gave him a lot of emotional comfort.

Ultimately, Rob hired me to represent him in his divorce case.

I helped him understand the law, and in particular, the way that our divorce court judges in New Jersey tend to apply the law to situations like his.

ROB USED MY DIVORCE SMARTER COURSE & FOCUSED HIS EFFORTS

Together, Rob and I explored a series of realistic settlement possibilities.

I also recommended several therapists and financial experts to him.

Rob hired a therapist who helped him deal with his feelings of betrayal, got him to slow down and think about what his goals are, and helped him to focus on what type of custody arrangement is in the best interest of his children.

He also hired a financial advisor, who helped him get a better grasp on his finances to support his divorce case's financial theory.

He and Sue attended a special custody mediation program at the Court House.

We exchanged multiple settlement proposals with Sue's lawyer, and Rob and Sue, with their attorneys present, participated in mediation of the economic issues.

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ROB & SUE SETTLED

Ultimately, Rob settled the case in a way that meets his needs and the needs of his children.

Sue was not able to "take him for all that he's got." Not even close.

It was a fair deal.

There was no need for an expensive, drawn-out contested trial.

Issues of custody and money that at first seemed impossible to resolve were worked out fairly.

Ultimately, Rob and Sue had a simple uncontested divorce hearing.

He then began to heal.

 

ROB'S LIFE GOT BACK ON TRACK

Rob called me to say "hello" recently.

He sounded like a new man.

He told me that working with a therapist has taught him how to manage the rage that at one time had consumed him.

He said that his relationship with his children has never been better, and that he was surprised to find that he is not lonely but rather that he's enjoying his freedom.

He's dating.

He's able to afford to do what's important to him.

"Life is good!" he told me.

 
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