Divorcing in NJ?
Get Clear Guidance. Right Now. Before You Make A Mistake.

I've handled over 5000 NJ divorces since 1987. I may be able to help you.
You can either speak with me, or start learning online now.
To begin learning online now, enroll in my Divorce Smarter course: CLICK HERE
To speak with me, Call Valerie at (732) 845-9010.
Who I Typically Work With
Most of the people I work with are dealing with situations where:
- Their spouse is difficult, controlling, or unpredictable.
- Communication has broken down.
- Important decisions are being made quickly.
- They want to avoid mistakes that can’t be undone.
In some cases, that includes situations where a spouse may be highly self-centered, manipulative, or what people often describe as "narcissistic."
I work best with people who want to approach this thoughtfully and make smart, strategic decisions—not escalate conflict unnecessarily.
What Our Clients Say:
"Steve Kaplan represented me in a grueling two year divorce. A trained attorney myself, I give Steve the highest marks."
F.M., Esq.
"As a psychotherapist, I have quite a few clients who have been represented by Steve Kaplan, and have found him to be honest, direct, approachable, and focused."
M.M.S., LCSW
"From the time of the initial consultation through to the end, I felt like I had a big brother in my corner that you did not want to mess with, who had an answer to any and every situation that might arise."
B.N.
"I was in such a difficult situation with little to no hope of ever recovering when I was blessed with finding Steve Kaplan. This man is truly a miracle worker and directs a team of professionals like an orchestra conductor."
L.W.
"He is the most knowledgeable family law attorney I know. He has helped each of my clients obtain extremely favorable results.."
V.M., Esq.
"As a physician in the community, I have benefited greatly from Steve's expertise"
S.S., MD
"In addition to his caring demeanor, his knowledge of the law is unmatched."
K.L., Esq.
"He is the consummate professional that you can trust with the most complicated, emotional process you can possible go through. I have recommended him to others and will continue to do so. Hire him, he's the best!"
J.R.
"Hands down, the best divorce attorney in New Jersey."
D.H.
"He is a very honest man and I believe his honesty is known throughout the Monmouth/Ocean county court system which gives him credibility with both judges and his peers."
A.A.
"Steve Kaplan is without question one of the most caring, knowledgeable and patient Divorce Lawyers."
D.Z.
"I’m glad that I listened to him then, and now 8 years later I’m still glad that I listened to him."
J.F.
"One of New Jersey's best family law attorneys."
J.T.
"Steve Kaplan has earned his place as one of the best lawyers in New Jersey through his knowledge, wisdom, dedication and many long years of experience."
H.S.
"His passion is to provide reliable information for people struggling with divorce issues who need regular support with their legal questions."
M.W.
"He fought hard for what he believed was in my best interest, and Thank God he did. With his help, I was able to rebuild my life. I survived because of Mr.Kaplan's services and highly recommend him."
K.S.
"He is relatable, kind, and straight forward."
C.Z.
"I can't say enough about how well Mr Kaplan treated me and the exceptional service I received by him and his firm."
M.C.
"I want to personally thank you for everything you have done for me. You are a true professional. A miracle happened in my life when I met you."
MJ
"If you want an attorney with straightforward integrity, conscientious with your money, and gives extremely honest viewpoints based on his 30 plus years of experience, Steve is the attorney for you."
B.P.
"Steve Kaplan is the only family law attorney I will ever refer anyone to see. He helped me through a difficult divorce with issues including child custody, child support and division of property about 10 years ago and has been available and easily reachable for any concerns I’ve had over the years since."
C.L.
"Steve advised me and worked with me each step of the way, always knowing the specific details of my case. He made me feel like we were working together as a team to get to a positive end result."
L.G.
"The absolute best experience with this team. Working with Steven was one of the best decisions I made during my process. Everyone, and I mean everyone at this firm was so pleasant to work with."
F.J.
"...He proved to be very compassionate and I want to thank him and Valerie for their professionalism throughout the process. Highly Recommend."
C.C.
"He goes the extra mile to make sure that he has all the important information needed to assist the client and reach the best results. I was very satisfied and highly recommend Steve."
P.J.
"Steven takes the time to personally understand your case. He is definitely a great lawyer, who works for his clients , and it's never driven by money, you come first...this is a rare trait in this world today."
P.S.
"Steve is an excellent attorney and is always looking for new and innovative ways to better serve his clients. Easy to work with and draws on his extensive knowledge and experience to get great results."
K.M.
"Steven J. Kaplan took what was literally a spiraling out of control legal situation due to a conflict between two other attorneys....he locked it down and wrapped it up with a mutually agreeable bow for two formerly warring ex-spouses who share a minor child. He makes miracles happen."
P.Y.
"Steve is a fantastic divorce lawyer who deeply cares about his clients. Exactly who you'd want by your side in a difficult time."
R.M., Esq.
"Perfect!"
P.S.
"5 Stars"
J.M.
"I found him to be a compassionate, caring professional with a good grasp of the details at a time when I was drowning in a lot of difficult feelings. I have concluded the dissolution of my marriage, and have the strength to carry on, and I give him and his firm a lot of credit for that."
P.O.
What This Looks Like in Real Situations
I’ve been involved in over 5,000 New Jersey divorce cases over nearly four decades.
Every case is different, but here are a few examples of situations I’ve handled:
- A physician concerned about paying too much in alimony
- A business owner whose spouse had little involvement but was making significant financial claims
- A parent dealing with a controlling spouse and concerned about maintaining a strong relationship with their children
- A high-income household where early decisions could have had long-term financial consequences
In each of these situations, the goal was the same:
make smart decisions early to avoid problems later.
What Happens Next
If you decide to reach out, here’s how it works:
- You’ll speak briefly with my assistant, Valerie, so we can understand your situation
- If it makes sense, we’ll schedule a short initial call with me
- On that call, I’ll listen to what’s going on and point you in the right direction
- If you want more detailed guidance, we can schedule a full consultation
Or, if you’re not ready to speak yet, you can start with the course and learn how the process works before making any major decisions.
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You don't need to figure this out on your own. The key is to avoid making decisions now that create problems later.