Divorcing A Narcissist in Monmouth County?
I'll Help You Reach A Fair Result.
I’m Colts Neck divorce lawyer Steve Kaplan.
I’ve helped over 5000 people obtain fair divorce results.
Many of these people were divorcing a high-conflict spouse.
And a great number of those high-conflict personalities initially were impossible to negotiate with.
You know the drill: they lie, they manipulate, they gaslight. They don't really want to settle the case; instead what they want is to destroy my client.
They are, indeed, impossible human beings.
Nonetheless, we were still often able to employ tactics that were effective in helping bring the parties to a fair resolution.
While your case with your narcissistic spouse will likely be harder than a "typical" divorce, I'll give you creative ideas for what to do to protect yourself.
No two divorce cases are identical. And no two "narcs" are identical. That's why you'll learn tactics to help you get the best results possible under the specific facts of your case.
To get these valuable tools, sign up for instant access to my free "Divorcing Your NJ Narcissist" Course.

"My wife is a Narcissist...
....and I just found out that she is sleeping with my best friend. I want a divorce!" That's the first thing that Rob told me. Rob's a good guy who has gone through hell. Understandably, he was a bit of a mess when we first met. But he's turned it all around and made a great life for himself and his kids. I'll show you how he did it, and I'll give you ideas for how you can get a fair settlement, too.

My Top 10 Ideas To Help You Divorce A Narcissist
There are certain things that you can do to level the playing field if you are about to divorce a narcissistic or other high-conflict spouse...

Why Are There So Many People Divorcing Narcs?
About 20 years ago I began noticing an uptick in the number of new clients who told me that they were married to "a narcissist"...
What Our Clients Have to Say
"As a psychotherapist, I have quite a few clients who have been represented by Steve Kaplan, and have found him to be honest, direct, approachable, and focused."
M.M.S., LCSW
"From the time of the initial consultation through to the end, I felt like I had a big brother in my corner that you did not want to mess with, who had an answer to any and every situation that might arise."
B.N.
"I was in such a difficult situation with little to no hope of ever recovering when I was blessed with finding Steve Kaplan. This man is truly a miracle worker and directs a team of professionals like an orchestra conductor."
L.W.
"Steve Kaplan represented me in a grueling two year divorce. A trained attorney myself, I give Steve the highest marks."
F.M., Esq.
"He is the most knowledgeable family law attorney I know. He has helped each of my clients obtain extremely favorable results.."
V.M., Esq.
"As a physician in the community, I have benefited greatly from Steve's expertise"
S.S., MD
"In addition to his caring demeanor, his knowledge of the law is unmatched."
K.L., Esq.
"He is the consummate professional that you can trust with the most complicated, emotional process you can possible go through. I have recommended him to others and will continue to do so. Hire him, he's the best!"
J.R.
"Hands down, the best divorce attorney in New Jersey."
D.H.
"He is a very honest man and I believe his honesty is known throughout the Monmouth/Ocean county court system which gives him credibility with both judges and his peers."
A.A.
"Steve Kaplan is without question one of the most caring, knowledgeable and patient Divorce Lawyers."
D.Z.
"I’m glad that I listened to him then, and now 8 years later I’m still glad that I listened to him."
J.F.
"One of New Jersey's best family law attorneys."
J.T.
"Steve Kaplan has earned his place as one of the best lawyers in New Jersey through his knowledge, wisdom, dedication and many long years of experience."
H.S.
"His passion is to provide reliable information for people struggling with divorce issues who need regular support with their legal questions."
M.W.
"He fought hard for what he believed was in my best interest, and Thank God he did. With his help, I was able to rebuild my life. I survived because of Mr.Kaplan's services and highly recommend him."
K.S.
"He is relatable, kind, and straight forward."
C.Z.
"I can't say enough about how well Mr Kaplan treated me and the exceptional service I received by him and his firm."
M.C.
"I want to personally thank you for everything you have done for me. You are a true professional. A miracle happened in my life when I met you."
MJ
"If you want an attorney with straightforward integrity, conscientious with your money, and gives extremely honest viewpoints based on his 30 plus years of experience, Steve is the attorney for you."
B.P.
"Steve Kaplan is the only family law attorney I will ever refer anyone to see. He helped me through a difficult divorce with issues including child custody, child support and division of property about 10 years ago and has been available and easily reachable for any concerns I’ve had over the years since."
C.L.
"Steve advised me and worked with me each step of the way, always knowing the specific details of my case. He made me feel like we were working together as a team to get to a positive end result."
L.G.
"The absolute best experience with this team. Working with Steven was one of the best decisions I made during my process. Everyone, and I mean everyone at this firm was so pleasant to work with."
F.J.
"...He proved to be very compassionate and I want to thank him and Valerie for their professionalism throughout the process. Highly Recommend."
C.C.
"He goes the extra mile to make sure that he has all the important information needed to assist the client and reach the best results. I was very satisfied and highly recommend Steve."
P.J.
"Steven takes the time to personally understand your case. He is definitely a great lawyer, who works for his clients , and it's never driven by money, you come first...this is a rare trait in this world today."
P.S.
"Steve is an excellent attorney and is always looking for new and innovative ways to better serve his clients. Easy to work with and draws on his extensive knowledge and experience to get great results."
K.M.
"Steven J. Kaplan took what was literally a spiraling out of control legal situation due to a conflict between two other attorneys....he locked it down and wrapped it up with a mutually agreeable bow for two formerly warring ex-spouses who share a minor child. He makes miracles happen."
P.Y.
"Steve is a fantastic divorce lawyer who deeply cares about his clients. Exactly who you'd want by your side in a difficult time."
R.M., Esq.
"Perfect!"
P.S.
"5 Stars"
J.M.
"I found him to be a compassionate, caring professional with a good grasp of the details at a time when I was drowning in a lot of difficult feelings. I have concluded the dissolution of my marriage, and have the strength to carry on, and I give him and his firm a lot of credit for that."
P.O.
I've Put Together A One-Of-A-Kind Resource
It's called Steve Kaplan's Divorce Course and it will really help you.
It's totally anonymous...I don't even ask for your name...other than the daily help that you will receive via email, no one is going to ever reach out to you... your spouse will never know... and your email address will NEVER be used for any reason other than to send you my material.
And... if you ever want to stop the course, click one button and it ends.
Immediately.
Forever.
With no contact from me or my staff ever again.
Because I understand what a sensitive issue this is for my clients.
I've designed this to be zero risk for you, and you have a whole lot to gain.
What You’ll Get in This Course
- ✔️ Daily bite-sized lessons – so you don’t feel overwhelmed.
- ✔️ Easy-to-watch videos – breaking down complex topics in just a few minutes.
- ✔️ A step-by-step roadmap – so you always know what to expect next.
- ✔️ Legal, financial & emotional strategies – to help you make the smartest decisions possible.
- ✔️ Real-world case insights – so you can learn from others who’ve been in your shoes.
- ✔️ A better, more confident approach to your divorce.
If you're like me, you may find it easier to check out a new idea by looking at a video, and so I offer you a very short one below that will give you an idea into how I teach in my divorce course and what my personality is like:
Want a sneak peek? Watch a 1-minute preview of one of my lessons:
My Course Will Get All Of Your Questions Answered
Divorce is complicated, and you probably have a hundred questions running through your mind right now.
The good news?
I have answers.
Click the blue box below to see some of the most common divorce questions, and my answers. This will give you more of an idea as to whether my course is for you:
See What You'll Learn in the Free Course
So are you hooked on the course yet?
I sure hope so.
Let’s Get Started.
Join the more than 5,000 people I’ve already helped, and get your first lesson right now, for free.
Start Learning Now – Your First Lesson is Waiting!
Just click the blue rectangle below to immediately get started:
Start Getting Smart About Your Divorce — Click for Instant Access to my Free NJ Divorce Course
I look forward to helping you get better divorce results!