Sexual Abandonment?
There was a guy from Rumson who came in to see me a while ago
(let’s call him “James”).
When James walked into my office,
I could tell he was holding a lot in.
He looked tired — emotionally more than physically.
When we sat down, he took a long breath and said:
"I haven’t had sex with my wife in over three years.
I’ve asked. I’ve begged. I’ve cried about it in therapy.
She just isn’t interested.
And I’m not sure how much longer I can pretend this is okay."
James wasn’t angry.
He wasn’t trying to be cruel.
He was just lonely — and deeply confused.
He loved his kids.
He respected his wife, even after everything.
But the intimacy was gone.
And with it, a piece of himself had vanished too.
“I know marriage is about more than sex…
But it’s not supposed to be about no sex.”
He’d read conflicting things online.
Some said he had no case.
Others said he could divorce for “abandonment.”
He needed real answers —
not opinions from strangers.
I’m Steve Kaplan, a divorce lawyer in Colts Neck.
For over 37 years, I’ve helped people like James
in Monmouth County navigate difficult marriages
with dignity, clarity, and control.
Here’s what I can tell you:
✅ You can get divorced in NJ without proving fault.
✅ You can be honest — even about intimate issues.
✅ You can move forward without destroying your life.
Whether your spouse has walked away emotionally, physically, or sexually —
you are allowed to take the next step.
But you need a smart plan.
That’s why I created
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— G.R., Middletown
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— J.S., Holmdel
James took the course. Then he took control.
Today he’s living in a small place in Fair Haven.
He still sees his kids almost every day.
He and his wife talk respectfully when needed.
And most importantly —
he’s no longer weighed down by guilt or shame.
YOU CAN START RIGHT NOW.
Just provide an email address on the form on this page.
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Just your email.
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You don’t have to suffer in silence.
Let’s talk strategy — not desperation.
— Steve
Steven J. Kaplan, Esq.
Law Practice Specializing In Divorce and Related Issues
📍 5 Professional Circle, Colts Neck, NJ 07722
📞 (732) 845-9010
🌐 www.KaplanDivorce.com