“She’s turning my own kids against me.”
That’s what one man from Rumson told me last week.
He and his ex-wife share custody — but the parenting schedule hasn’t felt “shared” in years.
The kids barely return his texts.
Pickup times get changed or canceled at the last minute.
And when he does see them, they act cold. Distant. Angry.
He asked me:
“Is there anything I can do?”
“Can visitation be changed — even after the divorce is final?”
If you’re dealing with a visitation schedule that’s no longer working…
If your ex is interfering with parenting time…
If your children are being turned against you…
You are not crazy — and you are not powerless.
New Jersey courts do allow parenting time and custody orders to be changed.
But here’s what most people don’t realize:
🚫 You don’t need a major emergency.
✅ You do need evidence that something important has changed.
✅ And you need a smart strategy to avoid wasting time or making things worse.
I’m Steve Kaplan,
a divorce and custody lawyer in Monmouth County for 37+ years.
I created Steve Kaplan’s Divorce Course for people like you —
Fathers and mothers who want real answers. Not false hope.
This free, private course walks you through:
✅ How parenting time works in New Jersey
✅ The legal standard to modify an existing custody or visitation order
✅ What courts look for when one parent claims the other is interfering
✅ How to document what’s happening now — so you’re taken seriously later
✅ Why making the wrong move now can damage your credibility in court
If you believe something’s not right with your current schedule,
Don’t wait. Don’t guess. Don’t go it alone.
👉 Enter your email in the form on this page to start the course now — privately and at your own pace.
Let’s get you clarity.
Let’s get you strategy.
Let’s get you back in your child’s life.
