Let’s clear up the confusion — fast.
If you're thinking about separating from your spouse, you're probably wondering:
"Do I need to file anything to separate legally in NJ?"
"Is there such a thing as legal separation in New Jersey?"
These are very common questions.
And the answer may surprise you:
In New Jersey, there is no formal “legal separation” like there is in other states.
You can separate today — without filing any court paperwork — and still remain legally married.
But wait…
Before you start packing a bag, there’s more you need to know.
NJ Doesn’t Have Legal Separation — But It Has This...
Instead of “legal separation,” New Jersey has something called:
Divorce from Bed and Board
(Yes, it’s a real term. No, it doesn’t involve sleeping in separate rooms.)
Here’s what that means:
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It’s a court-ordered legal separation that doesn’t end the marriage.
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You stay legally married — but live separately.
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It protects your finances, insurance, and legal status while you separate.
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It still requires legal grounds (like cruelty, adultery, etc.)
For some people, this is a smart option.
For most? It’s not necessary.
So What Should You Do?
That depends on your situation:
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Are you separating temporarily — or heading for divorce?
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Do you need financial protection or just physical space?
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Do you want to remain legally married — or move toward ending it?
If you’re not sure what’s best, that’s exactly what I can help you figure out.
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This is not generic advice.
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Real Stories from Monmouth County
“Steve’s explanation made it clear I didn’t need to ‘file’ for separation. I was so relieved.”
— T.M., Holmdel
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— R.P., Middletown
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Don’t Make a Move Without Understanding the Law
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Until next time,
Steve
Steven J. Kaplan, Esq.
Specializing in Divorce
In Monmouth County