Skip the confusion. Here’s what you need to know about filing for separation.
If 
you’re considering separating from your spouse in Monmouth County, you’re probably wondering:
“Do I need to file separation papers to protect myself?”
The good news is that New Jersey does not require you to file for separation.
You can separate immediately — no court filing, no paperwork.
You can move out today if you choose.
But before you do, let’s slow down for one moment.
Just because you can separate without paperwork doesn’t mean you should do it without a clear plan.
Every move you make right now could impact:
Your finances
Your children
Your future security
Many people make serious mistakes early on.
Let’s make sure that you’re not one of them.
In some states, legal separation involves court filings and formal agreements.
New Jersey is different.
There’s no legal requirement to file for separation.
No court order.
No decree.
You can separate informally.
There is something called "Divorce from Bed and Board," but I’ll explain that later — and more than likely, it will not even apply to you.
Or if it does, it is NOT something that you should be wasting time on right now.
Right now, your priority is to understand your rights and options.
Some people read an article like this and move on.
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Until next time,
Steve
Steven J. Kaplan, Esq.
Specializing in Divorce
In Monmouth County
