They Used to Run Into My Arms.

Now I’m Being Shut Out.

They were part of my everyday life.

We baked cookies.

We built Lego towers.

I babysat when no one else could.

And now, after the divorce… I’m not allowed to see them.

No explanations.
No phone calls returned.
Just silence.

I’m not trying to take over.

I just want a fair chance to stay in their lives.

If you’re a grandparent being shut out of your grandchild’s life after a divorce or family breakdown, you’re not alone — and you’re not powerless.

I’m Steve Kaplan, a family lawyer in Colts Neck.

For 37 years, I’ve helped New Jersey grandparents understand and assert their legal visitation rights — without escalating family drama.

What NJ Law Says About Grandparent Visitation

New Jersey courts do recognize grandparent visitation rights —
but you must show:

✅ A strong, pre-existing bond with the child
✅ That cutting you off could harm the child
✅ That your involvement serves the child’s best interests

This isn’t automatic.

It takes strategy.

That’s where I can help.

How I Help Grandparents Like You

✅ I’ll help you present your relationship effectively in court

✅ I’ll guide you on how to respond when blocked unfairly

✅ I’ll show you what to document — and what to avoid

✅ I’ll help you stay focused on what truly helps the child

This is not about fighting.

It’s about protecting something that matters deeply — your bond with your grandchild.

What Others Say

“My son’s ex tried to erase me from my grandkids’ lives.
Steve showed me how to fight back — respectfully but firmly.”
— D.W., Ocean Township

“Steve gave me the hope and tools to be seen by the court as part of my grandkids’ stable support system.”
— L.B., Holmdel

Ready to Talk?

If you’re worried about being shut out of your grandchild’s life —
you need to act now, before too much time passes.

Call my personal assistant, Valerie, at (732) 845-9010, and ask to set up a consultation with me.

We’ll talk about your rights — and your options.

Let’s protect the bond you’ve built.

— Steve Kaplan
Kaplan Divorce & Family Law
www.KaplanDivorce.com