How Long is Alimony Paid in NJ?


Steven J. Kaplan, Esq.

Published on November 20, 2025 | 2 minute read

If your marriage lasted 20 years or more, you’re looking at open duration alimony.

That means payments continue indefinitely, until there’s been a major life change (like retirement, disability, or remarriage) when a judge can be asked whether it is appropriate or not to modify alimony.

For anyone divorced from September 10, 2014 onward, there is a PRESUMPTION that the payor of alimony can retire at age 67 and stop paying alimony.

But it's just that: a presumption. Meaning that it can be challenged by the person who is receiving alimony.

 

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If your marriage lasted under 20 years, then alimony cannot exceed the length of the marriage, but judges have wide discretion as to the duration.

For example, a 13-year marriage could result in 12+ years of payments, depending on how skillfully the case is presented (yet normally on a 13 year marriage one would not, in my experience, see any where near a 12 year alimony payment).

Some of the factors that the judge must consider include:

  • Each spouse’s income

  • The receiving spouse's ability to become self-supporting

  • The marital lifestyle

  • The cost of two households

There are 19 statutory factors in total—and your outcome depends on how well your lawyer uses them

It’s a strategic negotiation, or worse—a judgment call from someone in a black robe.

 

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I’ve practiced divorce law in New Jersey for 37+ years.

I work closely with top forensic accountants to make sure that my clients don’t get stuck with inflated valuations, unrealistic income assumptions, or unfair timelines.


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You’ll learn:

  • How judges think about alimony in real cases

  • What to do (and not do) if you're close to retirement

  • How to prepare for mediation or trial

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Best regards,

Steve

Steven J. Kaplan, Esq.

Specializing in Divorce
Throughout New Jersey

(732) 845-9010

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