Divorce is already an emotionally charged process.
Divorcing a husband or a wife who is abusing alcohol always adds an extra layer of complexity.
Alcohol abuse will influence many aspects of your divorce case here in NJ.
For example, child custody and parenting time arrangements often become the focus of a divorce case when one spouse is scared to death of how his or her spouse parents children because of alcohol abuse.
The good news is that in child custody cases, the Court considers the impact of a parent's drinking habits on their ability to provide a stable and safe environment for the children.
To best support your case it's important for you to remember to document instances of irresponsible behavior related to alcohol use to enable you to present a clear picture to the Court.
You should also seek professional help, whether it be individual counseling or support groups.
And a forensic psychologist can be crucial to combat the denial that your spouse will likely put forth (like "I'm not an alcoholic; SHE'S the crazy one!)"
In every divorce case, proper documentation is crucial, but when alcohol is a factor, maintaining a record of specific incidents related to the partner's drinking behavior will be especially valuable to you.
This may include documentation of instances of neglect, verbal or physical abuse, or any actions that may compromise the safety and well-being of the children.
If alcohol is a factor in your divorce, you should stick around this website.
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Steven J. Kaplan, Esq.
Specializing In Divorce
In Monmouth County
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Colts Neck, NJ. 07722
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