And you're NOT crazy.
When your spouse twists your words or makes you feel like you are losing your grip on reality, it creates a level of confusion that is hard to explain.
If you searched things like:
• why does my spouse make me feel crazy
• why can’t I reason with my partner
• walking on eggshells marriage
• spouse gaslighting me
• is my spouse a narcissist
You deserve clear answers.
What You Are Feeling Is Real
People in high conflict marriages describe the same patterns.
You get blamed for things that are not your fault.
Your spouse rewrites arguments until you doubt yourself.
You walk on eggshells to avoid the next blow up.
The silent treatment appears out of nowhere.
There is no empathy or accountability.
The kids get pulled into conflict.
You feel like two different people at home and outside.
If this sounds familiar, you are in the right place.
Why This Happens
A spouse who twists your words, rewrites conversations, rages without warning, plays the victim, or shuts you out for days is following a predictable pattern.
This is not about your intelligence or stability.
It is how high conflict personalities control relationships.
You are not imagining it.
You are not too sensitive.
You are not alone.
If You Are Not Ready For Divorce
That is normal.
Many people spend months or years trying to understand what they are living with.
This page is not here to pressure you.
It is here to help you get clarity at your own pace.
Start My Free NJ Divorce Course
Your First Document Is
Steve Kaplan’s Step By Step Guide To Divorcing A Narcissist In NJ
When you sign up for my free NJ Divorce Course, the very first thing you receive is my guide:
Steve Kaplan’s Step By Step Guide To Divorcing A Narcissist In NJ
This arrives instantly as Lesson 1.
Inside you will learn:
• how narcissists behave during divorce
• why logic does not work
• what to expect with custody and money
• the patterns that appear again and again
• how to protect yourself in New Jersey
• the first steps that help people regain control
No pressure. No judgment.
Enter your email and the guide arrives immediately.
Why I Created This Course
I am a divorce lawyer in New Jersey with decades of experience helping people deal with narcissistic and high conflict spouses.
Not everyone is ready for divorce.
Everyone deserves clear information.
This is why the course begins with the guide.
What Happens After You Enroll
You will receive:
• First: Steve Kaplan’s Step By Step Guide To Divorcing A Narcissist In NJ
• How narcissistic spouses argue
• Why peace never lasts
• The impact of gaslighting
• When people decide to get help in NJ
• Later lessons with practical NJ divorce strategy
You move at your own pace.
No pressure to schedule anything.
You Do Not Have To Navigate This Alone
Living with confusion and chaos erodes your confidence. You deserve clear answers.
Start with the guide.
Read it privately.
Take your time.
Enroll in the NJ Divorce Course and receive Steve Kaplan’s guide as your first lesson.
