Having a controlling spouse makes life difficult.
Whether it's through manipulation, intimidation, or coercion, the effects of being in a relationship with a controlling partner can be emotionally and psychologically devastating.
If you are in such a situation, I think that it's important to understand that you have rights and legal avenues available to break free from this cycle of control.
In New Jersey, you have the right to live free from the undue influence and control of your spouse.
This fundamental principle is upheld by various laws and legal doctrines designed to protect you from abusive and controlling behavior within your marital relationship.
Controlling behavior can take different forms, including:
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Emotional and Psychological Abuse: Tactics such as gaslighting, manipulation, and threats intended to undermine the your sense of self-worth and independence.
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Financial Abuse: Controlling spouses may exert power by controlling access to financial resources, limiting the victim's ability to work or earn money, or using financial dependence as a means of control.
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Isolation: Controlling spouses may seek to isolate their partners from friends, family, and support networks, making it more difficult for the victim to seek help or escape the abusive relationship.
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Coercive Control: This refers to a pattern of behavior aimed at dominating the victim through intimidation, manipulation, and control tactics that gradually erode the victim's autonomy and agency.
If you are facing these forms of abuse and control within your marriage, seeking legal assistance from a knowledgeable New Jersey divorce lawyer is essential.
A skilled attorney can provide you guidance and support in navigating the legal process of seeking protection through a restraining order or filing for divorce.
Moreover, beyond legal remedies, it's crucial to prioritize your own safety and well-being.
This may involve seeking support from trusted friends, family members, or support groups, as well as accessing resources such as counseling or therapy to address the emotional impact of being in an abusive relationship.
Ultimately, you have the right to live free from the control and abuse of a spouse.
By understanding your legal rights and seeking appropriate assistance, you can take steps to assert your autonomy and break free from the cycle of control, paving the way for a brighter and more empowered future.
If you are considering separating or filing for divorce, the most important thing for you to do before doing anything else is to learn how to protect yourself, your children, and your assets.
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Steve
Steven J. Kaplan, Esq.
Specializing In Divorce
In Monmouth County
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