There are two places on the planet that battling spouses should not travel to in the same car.

At initial office conferences, potential new clients often ask me, “How long will it take me to get divorced?"

One of the first things that all first year law students are taught is that as a lawyer, you don't get to pick your judge. That is called "forum shopping", and is a "big no-no."

You don't need me to tell you that divorce is a stressful, emotionally draining, life-changing event.

Going through a divorce can leave you feeling overwhelmed and unsure of how to proceed.

What is the answer to this awful situation?

Seeking-out and hiring the right legal assistance can make all the difference.

What exactly is the New Jersey Matrimonial Early Settlement Panel (ESP)?

I think that parental substance abuse is a form of child abuse.

Is there anything you can do before your court appearance to help you retain the best results possible?

There is much uncertainty and most people have a lot on the line, and this combination can produce anxiety in even the calmest of people.

I suggest paying attention to the following 5 areas to help you to maximize your chances of having a successful court experience.

Judges are people too. They have a difficult job, especially in divorce court. Judges must listen to the witnesses testify, view the evidence in a case, and try to figure out who is telling the truth, and what the truth really is.

Everything at the courthouse is on video.

Do you have a NJ Restraining Order? Is the restraining order being violated, even at the Courthouse?  

Most of my experience as a lawyer who regularly handles NJ restraining orders is in the Monmouth County Courthouse.  

I can assure you that everything is recorded in the courthouse hallways in the Monmouth County Courthouse and the adjoining parking lots.

I believe it is crucial to teach my clients the importance of dressing appropriately for divorce court.